Cheating! We're no stranger to cheating, it's either you have cheated on someone or someone has cheated on you. Those who say they are strangers to this pandemic either didn't find out or haven't been in relationships long enough to discover.
Here's what I am wondering; Are there measures of cheating that are acceptable and measures that are not? Often we hear men and even girls defend themselves from cheating with the words, '' We didn't have sex ''
Is sex the fullest degree of cheating, the unacceptable level of it? Others have said, '' We just kissed '' or '' It was only one date. ''
For me, each degree is cheating enough! Sorry players; but, let's take it from the lowest degree of cheating. Talking to other guys on social media/apps. Inboxing other guys/girls while you're in a relationship. Having flirtatious conversations. This may be the lowest form of cheating, However, we have to ask ourselves: Why?
Why are you in boxing other people? If anything, it conveys the message that you are still looking and the relationship you're in is unsatisfactory .
The same goes with going on dates with other people! Is not spending the day with the girl or guy you're dating entertainment enough?
Or is it more fun to spend money on other people or is it more satisfying to have someone else spend money on you?
Kissing! Let's not even go there, it is sex in it's self; In fact, kissing is more intimate than sex. A guy/gal who just wants a fuck is less likely to kiss you during sex, but where there's feeling involved; Tongues twist.
So if right now you're in boxing other guys/gals, going out with other guys or kissing other guys/gals and believing you haven't cheated yet because the bedroom deed has not been done then you're only fooling yourself mate! You are cheating, no degree is more acceptable than another.
The Bible dost sayeth that no sin art greater than the other.
Here's what I am wondering; Are there measures of cheating that are acceptable and measures that are not? Often we hear men and even girls defend themselves from cheating with the words, '' We didn't have sex ''
Is sex the fullest degree of cheating, the unacceptable level of it? Others have said, '' We just kissed '' or '' It was only one date. ''
For me, each degree is cheating enough! Sorry players; but, let's take it from the lowest degree of cheating. Talking to other guys on social media/apps. Inboxing other guys/girls while you're in a relationship. Having flirtatious conversations. This may be the lowest form of cheating, However, we have to ask ourselves: Why?
Why are you in boxing other people? If anything, it conveys the message that you are still looking and the relationship you're in is unsatisfactory .
The same goes with going on dates with other people! Is not spending the day with the girl or guy you're dating entertainment enough?
Or is it more fun to spend money on other people or is it more satisfying to have someone else spend money on you?
Kissing! Let's not even go there, it is sex in it's self; In fact, kissing is more intimate than sex. A guy/gal who just wants a fuck is less likely to kiss you during sex, but where there's feeling involved; Tongues twist.
So if right now you're in boxing other guys/gals, going out with other guys or kissing other guys/gals and believing you haven't cheated yet because the bedroom deed has not been done then you're only fooling yourself mate! You are cheating, no degree is more acceptable than another.
The Bible dost sayeth that no sin art greater than the other.
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